how can you....?

how can you see your bestfriend hurting so bad inside without feeling sorry for her?
how can you see her cry without tears rolling down your own cheeks?
how can you see the sparkle, that was once so bright, lost in her eyes without feeling a sudden pang of regret?
how can you bear seeing her give up in life?
how will you feel if you cannot do anything to help her feel better?
how can you stand watching everybody around her blame everything on her?
how can you watch others insult and criticize her without feeling angry at them?



but...
how can you stand up for her if you know that she is at fault?